Amherst College Statistics | Signs of an Alcohol/Drug Misuse | How to Talk to a Friend about Substance Use | Combining Drugs & Alcohol
71% of Amherst College Students Drink 0-4 Drinks When They Party
Some Other Amherst College Statistics from the National College Health Assessment (2019)
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Signs Of Alcohol/Drug Misuse
Here are some signs that somebody may be misusing alcohol or drugs. Although people often take them lightly, these signs tell us something serious is happening with a person and that substances may be interfering with a person's daily activities. These signs may also be indicative of a potential chemical dependency. If you see someone you care about or yourself in any of these descriptions, speak up and encourage them to seek help.
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Driving under the influence - even if it is just "now and then"
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Blackouts - even if it is just "now and then"
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Passing out - even if it is just "now and then"
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Relationships:
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Use-related incidents
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Neglecting academics or work:
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Trouble with the authorities
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Doing things under the influence that you would not otherwise do:
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Frequently using alone or at inappropriate times
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Defensiveness about and denial of use
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Protecting your supply, sneaking use; and loss of ability to predict and control when and how much you will use.
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How To Talk to a Friend about Substance Use
About two-thirds of adult Americans know someone who struggles with their relationship with alcohol. Helping a friend involves acting as a "mirror", helping them to "see" their behavior by reflecting it back to them.
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Remind them that you care. Start the conversation by reminding them that you are addressing your concerns because you care about them as a person. Try saying something like, "I wanted to talk to you because I'm worried about you" or "our friendship means a lot to me, and I don't like seeing what has been happening." Don't forget to set boundaries for yourself because taking care of yourself matters too. |
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Use concrete examples.
Example: "Last weekend you tried to go home with someone you barely know, I was scared something bad could have happened to you." |
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Talk about your own feelings.
Avoid criticisms, judgements, or generalizations because it may lead to defensiveness and arguments. Saying things like "Everyone think you have a problem" will likely lead to arguments and defensiveness. Instead, use "I" statements to communicate your feelings and observations. It's hard for someone to dispute your personal feelings and observations. |
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Talk about sober behavior versus intoxicated behavior.
Example: "You have a great sense of humor, but when you drink it turns into cruel sarcasm. It's not funny, it's hurtful." |
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Separate the person from their behavior.
Highlight the difference between the person when they are sober and their behavior when they are under the influence of a substance.
Example: "I think you're a great person, but the more you smoke, the less you seem to care about anything, including your friends and your academics." |
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Openly discuss the unwanted consequences of substance use.
Address the negative consequences that your friend has experienced because of their substance use. Make sure the examples are specific and concrete.
Example: "At the party, we had to leave to help you get back to your room because you were throwing up. The next day you were too hungover to help us with the group project. It worries me to see how alcohol is impacting so much." |
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Other Tips
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Drug/Alcohol Combinations & Their Effects
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Depressants, Narcotics and Alcohol When used alone, alcohol causes a reduction in the function of the central nervous system. Use of depressants and narcotics with alcohol causes additional depression, which can cause severe impairment of voluntary movements and in large enough doses, involuntary functions such as breathing. |
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Stimulants and Alcohol Because the stimulant effect of this class of drugs may reverse the depression effect of alcohol on the central nervous system, these drugs may give a false sense of security. The alcohol will continue to exert its depressant effect on the brain. It can mask high levels of alcohol consumption, which may be lethal to the individual. |
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Marijuana and Alcohol |
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Hallucinogens and Alcohol Most hallucinogens act initially as stimulants and can produce elevation in body temperature, heart rate and respiration; pupil dilation and appetite depression. The depressant effects of alcohol will cause a racing up and down effect in the body. In addition, there is an increased likelihood that vomiting will occur, since nausea is common with both alcohol and hallucinogen consumption. In addition, the reality distortion caused by hallucinogens is amplified with the use of alcohol. |
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